.. children are a gift from the Lord...

... as we grow in our walk with the Lord, it seems that the trials increase, it is almost as if that He knows we can handle it ( and He does know...duh) and He wants to take us to a higher level of trust and faith again and again... as we are getting to know Him more and more,  we trust him and rely on Him, learn about His faithfulness and how much He loves us, our joy increases, even though our circumstances might be tougher..


all that said, I am in this, and I am thankful for the Lord, for His love and His commitment to making me more and more like Him..
today, I could have written a blog post about how difficult it all is, and I didn't want to do this... instead, I started watching old videos of my children..
focusing on my blessings...

after my abortion way back when I was terrified I would not be able to have any more children... my Louisa, born almost 24 years ago was such a blessing from day one.. such a sweet and angel like little Munchkin, what a wonder and blessing she was.. and is..

two and a half years later I remember lying in bed, the night before the scheduled cesarean, worrying if I could love this new baby as much as I loved Louisa... the next day, when I held her in my arms, with her little heart shaped mouth and her ears all rolled in ( seriously ) my heart flooded with a special love for this child... oh my  foolish worries, I didn't know that the capacity of a mother's love is infinite... little Laura has been a delight ever since..



6 more years went by and there was baby number 3... expected with as much anticipation and excitement this little Bekkielein arrived and has brought tremendous joy into my life, oh how I cherish having her home with me, my little independent  girl, love her like crazy...

all 3 are so very different, each of them put together lovingly by the God of the Universe, he knows the numbers of hairs on their heads and He has made them unique and so very special.. each daughter of mine has a specific purpose to fulfill here on this earth, He has called them as His own and has given them His Spirit.. He has given them special talents and gifts, He has knitted them together in my womb, He knows them and He will never leave them or forsake them... He will dry their tears and rejoice with them in the good times.. He has plans for them to prosper them and not to harm them, to give them a hope and a future.. He delights over them with singing and quiets them with His love...
He has given them to me to cherish, nurture and guide.. to bring them up to love the Lord their God with all their hearts and minds and strengths... all my almost 18 years as a Follower of Christ this has been my prayer... and I will never cease praying this for them... that they would love Him passionately, that they would want to please Him and that they would trust Him with all their hearts...

I know that I will spend eternity with them and I am cherishing each moment I have with them now...
they are my joy and my delight.. a gift from the Lord..

... We bought a Zoo.. and the answer to all our questions..

when God made Adam He made Him in His image... male and female He created them... we are made in His image... we are  not made to live in a broken, sinful world, a world  where cancer kills, accidents devastate, violence maims and relationships break..

just spend a very nice and relaxing day with my sister, even watched a movie at the movie theatre.. "We bought a Zoo" definitely a movie that is going to make it into my collection...
heartwarming and a true story... beautiful...

one moment in the movie just made it so clear to me...again.. we are just not made for things to end.. for life to end through  tragic accidents, for health to give way to terminal illness, for childhood to be brought to an abrupt end by abuse.. for relationships that are meant to last a lifetime to be discarded..

in the movie Kelly tells Benjamin "that everything comes to an end"... and it is true... in this world everything will come to an end.. the question is, will the end be a passing on to eternal life with God or to eternal separation from God?

will we be able to come to the place where He will wipe away all out tears... where there will be no more pain, or sadness or fear?
will we finally see Him face to face and will seeing Him make everything make sense, once and for all?????

are you sure you will???  are you really? how can you be sure?
the answers are found in His Book... it's the only reliable source... it's where His followers have found all the answers for all the questions ( I know I have said chocolate was the answer to all questions... not true... sorry) for thousands of years...

just saying'... if you are not sure... check it out.. start with the Gospel of John... book number 4 in the New Testament.. ( which is kind of the second big part of the Bible)  :)

.. I find you on my knees....

this morning I had to get up real early to take my little daughter to the airport to go away for a few days with her Dad.. lucky duck... now, I am sitting at Starbucks ( me the country girl, how exciting) my macbook on my lap, like it is so fitting for a laptop ;) waiting to meet someone for a tea... actually that would be a Soy Tazo Chai for me..
hate traffic and hate snow and cold and yucky...
thankful I do not usually have to get on the road every day to get to work... a leisurely 3 min drive through little Georgetown is my "commute".. very blessed I have to say..
driving on the Highway just now I was listening to the new CD from Kari Jobe, downloaded it from iTunes 3 minutes after it became available... beautiful songs, once again touching my soul..

one should think that after yesterday's "High" I would have been in a great place today,
truth is that the last few days have had me look at some really deep stuff...
giving up my own will, realizing that contentment needs to be found in who God is, His character , His Goodness, His Faithfulness, His Mercy and Love... that I cannot try and make a deal with Him... "I am going to work real hard on being godly and try to make myself think that the grass on my side is as green as the one beyond the fence... and then I will gain what I am wishing for"... foolishness... SERIOUSLY..

contentment includes to be content no matter what He will have for me... to be WITH Him in any circumstance, even the one that has me lonely and longing for companionship every night when I am alone..
I am striving for contentment and godliness which equals great gain... but HE gets to decide how that great gain looks...
giving up my idea of what "great gain" really means... ( a godly, loving and COOL husband) is very hard.. it fills my heart with fear.. realizing that it means I have to embrace whatever pain and suffering is included I want to say "No, thanks"... it's like me trying to forgo having to go to the dentist... which never works... you just end up having real pain.. even more, just a little later.. there.. it is just not working..
really, I am only fooling myself into thinking I had a say... I need to surrender, I need to accept where I am and what my future will hold is in God's hands.. and if I really believe that He is my best friend, the One that loves me perfectly and will never forsake me, what is the big deal?
It is giving up my own will... even if this is only an illusion anyways.. thy will not mine be done.. and resting in it.. accepting that sharing in the suffering of Christ is part of the deal...
 So thankful that Kari puts it like this in her new song:

Trouble chasing me again

Breaking down my best defense

I'm looking

God I'm looking for your

Weary just won't let me rest

And fear is filling up my head

I'm longing

God I'm longing for you

But I will

Find you in the place I'm in

Find you when I'm at my end

Find you when there's

Nothing left of me to offer you

Except for brokenness

You lift me up

You never leave me thirsty

When I am weak

When I'm lost and searching

I find you on my knees

So what if sorrow shakes my faith

What if heartache still remains

I'll trust you

My god I'll trust you

'cause you are faithful

And I will

When my hope is gone

When the fear is strong

When the pain is real

When  it's hard to heal.

When my faith is shaken

And my heart is broken

And my joy is stolen

God I know that you lift me up

You never leave me searching

AMEN

..Life affirming choices and Superheroes....

my great buddy and friend just said I could now get my Super Hero Cape... she obviously is suffering from some form of sleep deprivation or something...
truth is.. today a young woman made a life affirming choice after finding out she was pregnant... circumstances more than tough and still, she decided to carry this baby to term..
I am amazed and I think if anyone should get a Super Hero Cape it would be her..
I am thankful to God for bringing her our way.. for her to see our brochure at a "Help" agency and call... takes guts and I am proud of her..
sounds like her life has been rather hard so far and I am so thankful we can help her along the way..
this is what it is all about and how amazing is God to allow us to come alongside her and support her in any way we can!
was struggling this morning about if I should blog and announce  that so far no one has come to our Young Mom's Drop in... or the Free Prenatal class... felt like a failure, even though I know better..
it takes time to get the word out and we are not some big city with so many pregnant young girls.. thankfully these two classes might not be that needed at this moment... or the ones that need it just haven't heard.. yet.... the Drop in will be there from now on every Tuesday night... the Prenatal class we will just offer again in a couple of months..
so this morning, praying and proclaiming our trust in the Lord and the plan He has for this ministry.. that waiting on Him could be waiting for a long time.... and all that...didn't He just have a surprise for us... AMAZING... the phone rang and there we were...
Praising Him for allowing us to give from the abundance He has blessed us with.. to share His love and care...
oh.. I am still single... yeah... forgot about that.. funny how that goes... many more thoughts on that one.. but that will have to wait.. for now.. we are rejoicing!!!!!!!!!

..shooting the messenger?? NO WAY!!!!

today I had to ask for forgiveness for something I did last week...

last Sunday in church I felt resentful towards my pastor for what I usually, for  almost 14 years now, admire about him so much..

he has gotten so much flak for preaching the Word, the Truth as it is communicated in the scriptures.. I have heard him say many times "I am the messenger, don't get mad at me"

I didn't get mad, but I resented that someone, who clearly didn't know at all what he was talking about, could, like it seemed to me "dismiss" something so easily that I have found so very, very difficult...

truth is, and I knew that all along that in fact he was just doing what he always so faithfully does, he was speaking truth into my life, from God's Word to my heart..

I guess in 14 years nothing has ever touched such a tender spot in me like this topic did..

as he ended the sermon last week with something like "being single is a blessing" I turned around and told my best friend "I am not feeling blessed at all"... * felt like stomping off like a little stubborn 2 year old*

since then, for 7 days now, I have chosen to thank God for my singleness, like I shared in my last blog...

and once again, my God is not disappointing me... once again, taking a step towards Him in obedience is rewarded with Him showing me things I wasn't able to see before...

I am indeed blessed to be single, not only because of the things , so very substantial and important, that my pastor spoke about... things like being able to serve Him more, focus on pleasing Him because I am not distracted by having and wanting to please a spouse... 

it is so much more than this.. truth is, He has been protecting me and will not stop until the time is right... actually he never will stop protecting me, but He is the one that has made sure I am single still, because, truth is, with a teenager who is still struggling so much with the fallout of the divorce, more tears about this again last night, a man and potential stepfather would have complicated an already challenging time.. for her and for me...

He has been protecting me from myself... and I know that full well... somehow I will have to develop more self discipline... have to learn how to hold back and wait for that man God has for me to pursue me and woo me.. not to jump in too early, like it is my habit of doing...

I am not there yet and He knows it.. duh....

this morning, with all my kids and all my doggies in my bed with me, I thanked God that I did not have to worry if a "new husband" would be okay with the way it got a little crowded.... I LOVED it...

last night's Birthday dinner with them was a wonderful treat... again... between the four of us we can just be ourselves and I enjoy this SO much...

so today, after this amazing man of God had preached the truth once again I made sure I went to him and asked him to forgive me for getting "mad" at the messenger... I thanked him for allowing the Lord to use him once again to communicate to me.. it was hard for me to hear, but it was necessary... another step taken on the journey of my life... 

48 years old tomorrow and a little wiser... thanks to a pastor who takes his "job" very seriously and does not shy away from speaking the truth, no matter what kind of response he gets...

.. no more tears...

okay.. so  I didn't like this week's passage, didn't like the fact that I was supposed to feel blessed to be single..SERIOUSLY??? I am supposed to embrace singleness, as I am called to be content in all circumstances... well.. tough.. I have been fighting this tooth and nails for a long time..

at the same time I am feeling blessed, I know me feeling lonely is something that really has not much to do with my circumstances, but more with a longing that has never been fulfilled..  in my marriage or now, literally alone...a longing for a closeness and intimacy, an eternal love and security..

I know that I am blessed because I can serve my Lord without having to worry about pleasing my husband. I am not using up my energy trying to keep the peace in a house full of tension.... I don't have to worry if my husband will be okay with what  I and the children are doing, if we are going to be living up to his expectations..and the list goes on..

I am blessed because I know that He is who He says He is... He is my shelter, He loves me and will never forsake me, I know this better now than I did 3 years ago..

I am blessed because there are so many possibilities and opportunities that were not there before..

and still... the loneliness..

in my little Bible Study group with two VERY special friends this afternoon I read something from
"So long, Insecurity, you have been a bad friend to us" by Beth Moore... and as I was reading it, it brought tears to my eyes..

" God does not take lightly that some of us were raised in a veritable madhouse. He does not take lightly that some of us have been mentally berated, or physically beaten or sexually abused or simply abandoned.... He knows that it is scary to be us..
Son of David, have mercy on us.. it is almost too much to bear here at times Lord, no wonder we are insecure..
The thunder crashes in the heavens, and the earth grows dark in the middle of the afternoon, and a man, beaten to a bloody pulp, cries from a cross between two thieves, "it is finished!" Because He did, one day God will wipe away every tear from the eyes of those who trusted Him, and there will be no more death or mourning or crying or pain, for the old order of things will pass away and all our hardship will be finished...

tonite at my Cell group meeting I told my accountability group that this is my action step from this day forward, actually I started it on Sunday already:
I am going to start my day each day from now on by thanking my Lord for my singleness..
I will thank Him for 3 specific things I can think of each day.. I am praying that this over time will change my attitude and allow me to be content..

... you have NO idea...

was reminded of something very significant yesterday... we can never know how something difficult feels until we have experienced it for ourselves... and even then we still might not have any idea, since every situation is different..

during the last 2 years I have had people say things to me that definitely were meant well... and what they said offended me, then I have had self-centred people say stuff to me, comparing their situation to mine when it could not be compared.. making statements about how I should feel... not helpful...

yesterday someone I love very much said something about my situation and all I could think was "you have no idea"....

rather than being upset about this I am choosing to learn a lesson... even when meaning really well, I should never assume I have any idea what the other person is going through... I need to be careful what I say... what kind of advice I am offering... 

my wonderful friend and partner is travelling to Uganda this week... in preparation for this trip her and her husband have asked for prayer that they would do just that.. that they wouldn't assume they could understand what the people they will meet are going through...  they will minister to children that have been forced to be child soldiers, women that have not only lost their husbands in the war but have been raped and tortured.. people without hope..

their prayer is to just communicate the love and the hope of Jesus.. relying on Him to give them the wisdom for when to say what... and when to just offer compassion and support..

I am convinced God is going to use them in a mighty way... as they are willing to serve Him wherever and in whatever way, trusting Him one hundred percent...

what was said yesterday was meant well, but it didn't give me any new or helpful advice.. it made me feel even more alienated...I  am sure I could have easily said the same thing before I ended up where I am today...  I definitely will try very hard never to come across as if I was trivializing other people's pain and struggles... I will try to be sensitive and careful... it's called empathy.. once again relying on Him to help me with that..

..unmarried.. not by choice...

....Now for the matters you wrote about: “It is good for a man not to have sexual relations with a woman.”  But since sexual immorality is occurring, each man should have sexual relations with his own wife, and each woman with her own husband.  The husband should fulfill his marital duty to his wife, and likewise the wife to her husband.  The wife does not have authority over her own body but yields it to her husband. In the same way, the husband does not have authority over his own body but yields it to his wife.  Do not deprive each other except perhaps by mutual consent and for a time, so that you may devote yourselves to prayer. Then come together again so that Satan will not tempt you because of your lack of self-control.  I say this as a concession, not as a command.  I wish that all of you were as I am. But each of you has your own gift from God; one has this gift, another has that.
Now to the unmarried and the widows I say: It is good for them to stay unmarried, as I do.  But if they cannot control themselves, they should marry, for it is better to marry than to burn with passion....
(1 Corinthians 7:1-9)

this week's passage.. have known this one very well for a very long time..  my situation has changed, and sorry, I have to say it again, but I never thought it would... and so this week so far I have tried to avoid  dwelling on it.. the thing is though I just can't...

always having embraced the teaching in this passage wholeheartedly , the last verse is now what is directed to me.. I am the "unmarried" or even the"widow" in some sense... sucks, is all I can say..

not sure how to reconcile this with the calling to be content in all circumstances, to trust and be obedient no matter what's happening around us.. interesting to see that Paul acknowledged there could be something like a burning passion being too much of a temptation to stand up against.. then again it says we will never be tempted by more than we can handle ... self control, a fruit of the spirit... and still... he says, better get married than to burn with passion and subsequently sin... ha... not that easy..

not a decision to be made by just one... thinking about this, and what I am longing for, a man that loves the Lord like I do, a man that would be the spiritual leader, who I could learn from and who would be as excited about what the Lord is doing as I am, a man that loves me  and cherishes me, accepts me and is willing to stand by me for the rest of our lives here no matter what.. someone able to feel as deeply as I do, someone who knows what forgiveness is and knows how to give it and receive it.. someone who will be good to my children and who will understand my background and will be familiar with the kind of life I have had all along... so this week, getting a little depressed, I wondered what made me think that there will be a man like this... truth is, the only few I know that are like this are committed, married men... and I am rejoicing for them and their wives...  so, I would love to be married so that I would not be tempted, but unless God brings this man into my life it will be just me.....

so really, I need to focus on some other scriptures.. those about obedience, self control and trust... hope.. and focusing on what is eternal, not temporal... living in the temporal my eyes sometimes wander... and then I get sad and hopeless...
so, for all my married friends... live this passage, embrace it, both men and women... lest Satan will tempt you..  and we all know where this leads.. give yourself lovingly to your spouse... after all, it is a great gift, designed by God.. and all that comes from Him is GOOD...

... he has come to steal, kill and destroy...

Salzburg, Austria... this is a picture of the open-air theatre on the front stairs of the Salzburg cathedral... one of the plays that has been performed there during the time of the Salzburg Festival held every summer, since 1920 is the play "Jedermann" ( Everyman) from Hugo von Hofmannsthal...
it must have been in 1990 that I had the privilege to see this play right there with my family..
Jedermann, a rich and stingy man ( like the Scrooge: cold-hearted, tight-fisted and greedy ) who is visited by Death, announcing that he will come and get him soon....I don't remember all the details anymore but what stayed with me was that Jedermann at one point in time sells his soul to the devil in order to have a long and prosperous life.. at the end of his life though he is a miserable, cold hearted man who is tormented by Satan, who owns his soul... before Death finally takes him he has to stand before his Maker and is held accountable for the choices he made in his life.. in the play he repents, makes amends and is forgiven..

remembering that even then I saw the relevance of this "morality play" ... so very relevant .. I guess that's why the main character is called "Everyman"....

Jedermann is a rich guy and confronted with the choice who he will worship, he chooses money / the devil... rather than God..

No one can serve two masters. Either you will hate the one and love the other, or you will be devoted to the one and despise the other. You cannot serve both God and money... ( Luke 16:13)

deciding to serve "money" instead of God... not sure if people are even aware they are making that choice.. a need for significance is the driving force behind it.. materialism is just one of the things that play right into this.. if I want more and more and more I eventually find myself in a place where I am deciding against what God in His wisdom has put up as limits and rules....I will end up lying, cheating and betraying because of greed ...

all of that has been happening all around me and what made me think about this today is how sad it is that Satan eventually will come and demand his "payment".. while there might have been many years of bliss because of all that money can buy, eventually and this is a sure thing, Satan will have fun torturing the ones he tricked into serving money, instead of realizing their need for a relationship with God..

to watch a "Jedermann" who had found his identity solely in what he accomplished and owned get old, depressed and empty... the cold heart lonely and shrivelled away... is very, very sad...
praying that for the ones I am thinking of right now there will still be a happy ending.. like in the play, I pray that God would step in and make them take a good look at the decisions they made..
that they would recognize their need for something money cannot buy... something they cannot control or manipulate, something that only requires a contrite and broken spirit, a spirit that acknowledges the need for a Saviour and will accept the gift of forgiveness gladly...
there are no u-hauls behind a hearse... eternal significance is only found in a relationship with God...
not in power, position or possessions...

let's be on guard ... Be alert and of sober mind. Your enemy the devil prowls around like a roaring lion looking for someone to devour... ( 1 Peter 5:8 )

... filthy rags..

..two full weeks and my 48th year of life will come to an abrupt end.. I will turn 48... pretty old I would say... and the 49th year of my life will begin..
it's the way my Grandmother used to always say it and I thought I am going to share this with you.. :)

48 is almost 50 and I hear that life will really begin once you are turning 50... works for me..
all kidding aside I am so very thankful for where God has me at the end of this my 48th year...

He has given me 3 wonderful daughters, who like I put it today talking about them to a friend, are my most treasured and cherished human beings... then there are my puppies, and you are guessing it, they would be my most cherished and treasured animals.. :D

He has blessed me by filling my life with wonderful friends, brothers and sisters in Christ that bring so much joy to my every day ..  renewed and restored relationships with extended family members, a blessing indeed...

passionate about life and all that it is about He has given me a true purpose..
He has freed me from most of my fears.. ( I am no longer hiding from my dentist, or try to get out of obligations that had me get on a plane...)

most of all I am blessed though to have been walking closely with my best friend for the last almost 18 years.. Jesus , God's son and God Himself, He has been faithful and full of love.. He has gently nudged me and stretched me and transformed me, pointing out weaknesses without condemnation, but with love.. supplying the means for change, He is the One that has to be praised for anything in me that is not as bad as it was before.. because..all of us have become like one who is unclean, and all our righteous acts are like filthy rags.. ( Isaiah 64 : 6) ..for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God ( Romans 3: 23)

confronted with a real weakness that has come to the forefront only in the last year or so, I again had to go to Him for the strength to change, for Him to change me, because I am not able to do this on my own..
I am frustrated about myself and was reminded again just how HUGE and unending His love for me is..

the area in Germany I grew up in there is a saying,... it says that a "Swabian" ( someone born in Swabia... ) suddenly becomes wise when turning 40... maybe there is hope for an almost 50 year old uprooted German in Canada... let's see what God is going to do....

.. sold out to Jesus...

sunshine and crisp air, actually a nice winter day in Georgetown Ontario.... church today again, I love the routine of it and the newness of it every Sunday morning..

love worshipping together with this church family.. for almost 14 years now... feel so at home and accepted and loved..
challenged by our faithful pastor, who boldly speaks the truth, not afraid to call sin a sin and be used by God to point out where we need to take a closer look...

as we do in this church of ours,  we study and meditate on one passage throughout the week, come together one night as a small group to share what God has been saying to us through it, and then on Sunday our pastor preaches about this exact passage...

so for this week....

I am not going to write about sexual sin anymore and how we must flee from it..
I am not going to go on about the fact that He has bought us, His children, for a price..
I am not going to point out that we are here to bring glory to Him ...
or that we need to be totally committed.. that we need to give all of us to His service, faithfully relying on Him, seeking Him out, so that He can make us holy, like He is holy...

for all of us, that know Him, and what He has done for us, we need to commit ourselves to living a life that represents Him well to those arounds us.. allow Him to be Lord of all areas of our lives.. no matter what we are struggling with, we need to be authentic , admit our weakness to each other and with the help of the Holy Spirit overcome it... because with Him we can.. after all, we can be confident of this, that he who began a good work in us will carry it on to completion until the day of Christ Jesus (Philippians 1:6)

Blessed beyond measure again today.. ready for a new week, standing firm in my faith and excited to find out what He will have for me this week....

#SoliDeoGloria

.... real hurt... real love...

... this whole jet lag thing has bothered me on this trip like never before... it results in a lack of sleep, when over there, not able to sleep, back here, up so early... well, eventually it will all get back to normal, right?

anyways, there is good in this because I am up so early, I can easily get my personal time with the Lord in and do everything I need to do and still am so ahead of myself ;)

still meditating on 1 Corinthians 6: 12-20...


Everything is permissible for me”—but not everything is beneficial. “Everything is permissible for me”—but I will not be mastered by anything.  “Food for the stomach and the stomach for food”—but God will destroy them both. The body is not meant for sexual immorality, but for the Lord, and the Lord for the body.  By his power God raised the Lord from the dead, and he will raise us also.  Do you not know that your bodies are members of Christ himself? Shall I then take the members of Christ and unite them with a prostitute? Never!  Do you not know that he who unites himself with a prostitute is one with her in body? For it is said, “The two will become one flesh.” But he who unites himself with the Lord is one with him in spirit.
  Flee from sexual immorality. All other sins a man commits are outside his body, but he who sins sexually sins against his own body.  Do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit, who is in you, whom you have received from God? You are not your own;  you were bought at a price. Therefore honor God with your body.

I love the way the amazing person that puts the SCC books together gives us 2 different Bible versions right there in the book... today something struck me... in the New Living Translation it says: "for God bought you at a high price".....

ha, a high price.. made me think...
yesterday I met with my dear Ex husband and driving away from that meeting I was in awe at what He, my Saviour  is doing... sitting there I am filled with the love of Christ for this man..  all is fine and we can talk like friends... this is a miracle, because the hurt was real, the betrayal was huge, the cuts so very deep... and yet, the healing has come and the love of Christ is there...

it is almost like I paid a high price, and I am aware of it, but Christ and His love wins...
so.... when I, even though I am Christ's and He is in me, sin against Him by behaving immorally, the hurt I inflict on my Saviour is real, the betrayal is huge, the cuts are deep... and yet, He loves me with that love that is immeasurable...

do I want to do that? the answer is NO..... he paid such a high price by His willingness to suffer for all the sins I have and will commit... do I want to knowingly add more to those????????
How could I even consider this? I am not considering this.... so there..

so no new revelation... but, He just used some different wording and a meeting to drive His point even deeper into my soul..... I just love Him!!!!

... black and white...

it is a new year and even though I am not into New Years resolutions and this kind of stuff, this morning during my time with the Lord I found myself journaling about something I need to be faithful about...

finding myself on the dating "market" I have been confronted with issues I never ever wanted to have anything to do with anymore...

becoming a Christian during my relationship with my Ex I have not been in this situation before... committed to following Him and all He tells us to do and not to do, applied now to the area of dating...difficult in this world, pretty much almost 20 years after the last time I was entering a new relationship, without the loving boundaries set up by the Father...

I am a different person all together.. and yet.. still in the "flesh" now struggling with that on a never foreseen level..

passionate and affectionate like I am, I needed to once again affirm with my Jesus this morning that I am fully aware that because of His Spirit in me, I am part if Him... I have been bought at a price and I am not my own.. my body is a temple of the Holy Spirit which is a gift from God...
so.. as much as I am committed to Soli Deo Gloria.. to God alone be the glory in all that I do.. I have to apply it to this part of my life as well..

I know it and I have been striving to be obedient... I also know so much better now that without totally relying on Him I am not able to pull this off..
pouring my heart out to Him this morning I was filled with a deeper understanding of what having been redeemed really means... I have no choice... I do not want to have a choice, I am His and I have to be obedient in EVERYTHING...

I learned this well in other areas of my life.. forgiveness for example...  submission to authority.. this just is  a new area where obedience needs to be applied..

I am so thankful for His Word.. it is so clear and black and white... flee from sexual immorality... no ifs or buts... how could we ever interpret this any other way...
purity it has to be....  there is no gain in indulging ourselves in immediate gratification... it is empty and destructive... staying under the umbrella of His authority is where blessings will flow... oh how much I love Him, by His strength and guidance I will please Him in this area as in all the other ones He has gently shown me...

...a new adventure with the Faithful One.. 2012!!!

January 1, 2012.....

fell asleep sometime last night.. long before midnight... so the New Year kind of surprised me this morning when waking up at 5 am, more like 11 am where my body clock is still anchored..

my two puppies sharing my wonderful king sized bed with me...so cuddly they are... white and fluffy..

So last night, watched a few episodes of my newly discovered tv series online... prayed.. for a long time...it was the last day of a year that, again, had many ups and downs.. scares and exciting events..

in it all, my God has been an awesome God, no surprises here... finally coming out of a second wave of deep sadness over the break up of my marriage in the beginning of 2011, my mother became horrendously ill and we almost lost her.. God was faithful and healed her, restored her to full health... a miracle..

preparations for Hope for Life took up most of the spring and summer and we finally opened October 17, 2011...  my faithful God at work again, confirming His calling and leading us all the way..

a health scare for my youngest...  a mass in her kidney... no longer to be detected by a CT Scan a few weeks later.. God is faithful..

the "Wedding" of the one who promised to never leave.. (in good and in bad times) to a "new"wife... stress for my children, a difficult few months leading up to this, trying to be the mother they needed me to be... faithfully God brought us through this as well...
showering me with His love by orchestrating a getaway and a personal encounter with His biggest instrument in my healing journey.. Michael W Smith, on the day of my Ex's wedding...
faithful and exhilaratingly loving... AMAZING He is...

more conflict in my "birth" family... peace throughout it all and small little steps to a resolution... maybe??? God has been faithful... even here...

the last day of the year, spend with one of my beloved daughters until she left to celebrate New Years with her friends...

walking with Him through 2011 was amazing, faith deepened, my relationship with Him closer than ever before... thanking Him for His Love, Mercy and Grace... even for allowing my whole world to break apart a little over 2 years ago... because not only has there been beauty in the turmoil... there has been Beauty from the Ashes... and only He, the Faithful One, could bring that about..

so 2012.. no matter what it will bring... for sure will find me relying on my Faithful God, the Lover of my Soul, who has marvellous plans for me... to prosper me and not to harm me, to give me a hope ( that will never disappoint) and a future... with Him... for eternity...

Blessings to you my friends... HE ROCKS!!!!! #SoliDeoGloria