.. a Challenge to fight FOR unity...let's do it!!!

challenged EVERYWHERE to reclaim what the church is all about...  a community of forgiven sinners, only by His strength and grace able to strive to love like He does..
let's stop being Hypocrites preaching to the world about forgiveness and love and failing to live authentically and with integrity doing just that....yes, even inside the church...
slander and gossip, sins as grave as any other sin...my passionate prayer: REMOVE the plank in our own eyes and let us not get upset about the splinter in someone else's eyes... if you have nothing encouraging and edifying to say: STOP talking...check your heart.. pride and selfishness... get rid of it!!!

as the excitement is rising, only 17 sleeps until the Grand Opening of HOPE FOR LIFE PREGNANCY CARE CENTER, as we slowly are starting to grasp what exactly it is that God has called us to in this ministry... which is engaging in the fight to win souls... bringing hope and love and support... ultimately to advance the gospel.... it seems very timely that we are being challenged to be who we are called to be, a light in the darkness ...
to be challenged as in "To summon to action, effort, or use; to stimulate"
the challenge is to LIVE a Christian life, not by pretending to be holier than thou but by authentically walking the talk with humility, mercy and compassion...

what would Jesus do... it is a no brainer... HE is all about forgiveness, love and compassion... no judgement for the repentent sinner... He will remember our sins no more if we confess and turn away from them..
Praying for that kind of attitude to surprise the women that will be coming through the doors of Hope for Life Pregnancy Care Center... let's, one woman at a time, show them who Jesus is, by "together making the invisible Christ visible"

.... knitted together in the mother's womb....

..today was a tough day, tough stuff to learn about and absorb, disturbing facts and information... leaving after a day of volunteer training exhausted and yet more assured that this team is a match made in heaven.. blessed and thankful.. bonding on a deeper level..
holding the little 10 week old fetus (one of our beautiful fetal models) in my hands while watching some of those videos...don't know why I did that but I was comforted by it, as if I was protecting it from what we learned about... how these little human beings are ripped out of their mother's uterus.. praying that by God's grace we will be instruments he will use to stop this from happening... sharing information and educating women and empowering them to make a better informed decision.. ultimately it is up to Him, He is the One who needs to change the hearts of those poor women, who are overwhelmed by the gravity of the situation  they are finding themselves in... compassion and such a burden for everyone facing this is weighing down my heart...
 no surprise that "everyday, mundane life" seems a little too much coming home.. the cloud of sadness and loneliness descending the moment I enter this house... a family consisting of an angry, unhappy teenager and me... a single parent, assaulted by just that fact.. "single parent"... when did I sign up for that? don't recall this..
God's goodness so evident all day... still there, just maybe hidden behind the Eeyore cloud???
opening up about some of the hurts today... should I be surprised I am being assaulted by the enemy as I am sitting here all by myself... seems that is what I am doing most evenings these days... usually this is more than fine... just today... not so fine...
exciting to be part of something that is apparently angering the enemy in such a way that he is using the most obvious things in our lives.. babies not sleeping through the night, dogs throwing up and loneliness... ha... you have to come up with other ways of discouraging us... because... this is NOT going to stop us, called by Him who is more than able to do whatever he calls us to do through us... we will be victorious, by His grace and His strength... just having to lean in a little deeper... snuggling a little closer into the embrace of the Lover of my Soul... the Saviour... Our Lord Jesus Christ... Praise be to Him !!!!

... trials and tribulations... :S

I wonder if there is anyone else out there that would be so happy if we could find a formula for some consistency, more stability... maybe it is just me, but it seems that just when you thought you dealt with one thing and figured it out for sure the next difficult situation arises...
I think it was James Mc Donald who said that as a Christian you can be sure that you are either in the middle, at the end or right before the next trial... not always huge ones, but something is always going on, he explained that our Father in Heaven is about refining us and he is committed to do that until the day He takes us home....
stomach flu in the house is probably not helping, and so I am not concerned... just tired...
why does a Mother have to be the one to be  called "unfair" and "mean"... not kidding.. I am sure next to God I do love my daughter the most. I am the one that thinks about, prays for her and invests herself most, so that she will grow up to be a healthy adult who will be able to engage in a meaningful journey...
I am tired...  just on Saturday I was telling this wonderful group of volunteers that they can be sure that the enemy is going to try to make them miserable and that we, my partner and I have had quite the share of this in the last 12 months... we are entering into a battle .. and he doesn't like that... the great news is that this battle was won on a Sunday morning almost 2000 years ago, when the tomb was empty ...
this does not mean that it is not real for us and that we have actual things that are going to be hard... but ultimately we are on the winning side... the victory has been won... my teenager is going to turn out okay, even if it will take many more of my hairs to turn grey.. in this situation He too is going to be victorious, He has claimed her as His own, and He won't let her go....
so, a little time off from turmoil for me, maybe???
I would really appreciate it.... please????? relying on Him to give me the strength to go on, what else can one do? at least He is where He promised to be, right here with me.... Praise God!!!

... by your love they will know...

wow... a Sunday school room filled with 13 women... 13 binders, a mac book, a projector, a TV, DVD and VCR player.. coffee, tea, cookies.... and...the HOLY SPIRIT...


truth, information, insight, historical background, statistics, phenomenal images of God's creation, a look into the womb...


little hand scratching tiny face.. little tongue sticking out.. how precious, forms and regulations, policies, ethics and mentoring lessons...


excitement and passion rising to the surface ... like wild water rafting... everyone gets caught up in the exhilaration...


purpose and truth.. no one is there by chance... 

For we are God’s workmanship, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do. (Ephesians 2:10)


filled to overflowing with a love for Him who calls us, for one another and any woman or man in crisis that will come to us, God willing... that is how we show the world who Jesus really is, that we love them with His love, support and care for them, without judgement, but just with love and as we set apart Christ as Lord in our hearts, we are always  prepared to give an answer to everyone who asks us to give the reason for the hope  and love and joy that we have and we will do this with gentleness and respect... ( 1 Peter 3:15)


Thanking God for a GREAT and ENCOURAGING first day of Volunteer training for Hope for Life Pregnancy Care Center.... #SoliDeoGloria

... the "joys" of single hood"... NOT

facebook and other social media sites keep us "middle aged people" on top of the lingo and what's cool with the young people...
some of the things I see and read I do not like... but this morning, very early actually, I found myself thinking "sucks to be me" one of the expressions I do not necessarily enjoy when I see a teenager posting that... but here I was... I felt discouraged and alone and forgotten, not important to anyone.. not important enough anyways to go the extra mile to make something work out for me... and I admit, it was a last minute request and there were other ways of doing it, I guess... not the best way for me, but still, it would have been okay... ( I am not upset with anyone , that's not what this is about )
I had been feeling pretty alone already for a few days.. just don't feel as a single woman I really belong anymore with the happy couples and families... so this morning, really early I just thought.. sucks to be a single woman, without a husband taking care of certain things.. "man things"....

 as I was praying and reading my bible I decided that I couldn't stay there, that I had to tell Him everything that was bothering me and that I had to just give the disappointment and feelings of abandonment to Him... after all, we are told in His Word that He will meet all our needs...I believe that even when I do not feel that way, and so I surrendered it again...
a few hours later a solution came my way out of a totally unexpected corner so to speak... not surprising , if you think about it, isn't He really good at this?
I definitely was blessed that my situation was resolved and that once again my Jesus had come through for me..
still, all day I have not been able to shake that feeling... my friend who is alone now too said something that is just so very true, even though we both would rather have it to be a lie.....
there is a lot of compassion and an outpour of help and concern in the beginning... but then life goes on for everyone, we are doing relatively fine and seem okay... and... then we are left to our own devices... not anyone's fault, just life... wondering what the lesson is for me... going to Him... trying to plan things a little better ahead of time...  not be disappointed that there is not that special someone that is by default my go to person... I realize that my former go to person took really good care of all these things for us.. so the lesson is too that if there is ever another "go to guy" to let him know how good a job he is doing and to cheer him on, because, it really sucks without one...

... being Christ to one another....

I "like" this page called "Jesus" on facebook, and how could I not like it... I love Him... ;)
"He" posts great scripture, challenges, you can post your prayer requests etc... so, nice, I like it.. :D
today, this was one of the early morning posts:


When you are drowning.......I will lift you out.
When you lack faith......I will erase your doubt.
When you are slipping.......I will restore control.
When you are dying.....I will embrace your Soul.
I am your Savior. Will you grab my outreached hand?

this is good news, for both the unbeliever who could be grabbing that hand for the first time, and, it is for us, the believers too....
we feel like we are drowning at times, we lack in faith, we definitely are slipping and we will all die...
will we put our trust in Him every step of the way?
we, the community of believers, if we are honest with ourselves, all struggle with these things once in a while... this is when a sister or brother in Christ needs to remind us... the great part is that this is something we can do for each other, all of us, there is no "I am the more mature one and I will always have that role in your life"... no, it very much is a two way street between any two believers... as long as we are AUTHENTIC and share where we are with someone, without fearing judgement..
following Him for more than 17 years now I am most amazed about the "when you are slipping".. as in taking some tentative steps away... He just comes in, and in His amazing love gently restores....
my love for Him grows day by day....

so today, I will love Him and my "neighbour", I will fear no judgment and be authentic, I will be Christ to whoever allows me to be... and I will gladly receive Christ's love from my FF's.... my fellow followers :D

... taking off the mask... being real..

read a great devotion this morning and a great truth was brought to my attention again: it is the dark places  in our lives that give weight to the Gospel, the broken places, the addictions to pornography, alcohol, drugs, power and control, it is in our propensity to blame and abuse each other, our greed and our depravity, in those places the changes can be seen from where we were to where we are going... the healing and the breaking of chains that happens when we genuinely follow Christ...

unfortunately in churches ( not mine , thanks be to God) these dark places often are not talked about... a mask is put on, a code of behaviour that is acceptable is established and then people hide behind it...

this is when we become hypocrites and the world turns away from us....

when we find the gospel to be true and start to attempt to walk the talk,  it eventually brings us to a place where we must confront our brokenness and admit to ourselves that this is what we are :  both the walking wounded and the perpetually healed.

only then the power of the Gospel will be seen:

"But he said to me, "My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness." Therefore I will boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses, so that Christ's power may rest on me."
 2 Corinthians 12:9


on the day of the Grand Opening and Dedication Service I will give a short testimony about my abortion, I will, for the first time in front of a huge bunch of people that know me, share this part of my life, one of my dark places... many will be shocked to hear this and some will not be able to handle it... those that are so used to hiding behind their masks will probably judge me.. now, I have decided long ago, when I started sharing this part of my journey, that it didn't matter what people thought... if the God of all Creation forgives me and remembers my sin no more, what does the opinions of people still mean to me...

On the contrary, we speak as men approved by God to be entrusted with the gospel. We are not trying to please men but God, who tests our hearts. 1 Thessalonians 2: 4+5

In His grace He has chosen me to be entrusted with the gospel, to share my testimony is allowing others to be vulnerable, come out from behind their masks and allow the healing to take place... I am not trying to please men or women for that matter, I am not trying to become more liked or admired... just to be used by my Saviour who loves me enough to give me a purpose... #SoliDeoGloria

.... life's ups and downs.....

...what a week... so many exciting things, received many boxes of resources and "stuff" for the center... the house next door to the church will be owned by the church end of October and with that... so many exciting possibilities... if it is God's will, for Hope for Life...
sad / exciting moments this week as well.....
my oldest daughter... so grown up and accomplished and a great source of joy and pride... took possession of her own Condo and moved out FOR GOOD :*(
emotions are mixed because I am so happy for her, I also strongly believe that it is the right time for that, and yet... when is there ever a right time for your baby to move out of your "daily" life so to speak..
I remember 5 years ago... when she took the first steps into living her own life.. moving her into residency in Toronto... what I had dreaded so much turned into something not at all like I had imagined... she ended up coming home pretty much every weekend and Mami was a happy camper.. commuting for a few years with a year in an apartment in between.. this is the final step out of the nest... she is in full flight and it is a great thing... if it wasn't that sad as well...
home schooling for my youngest is proving more challenging than we first thought... a melt down, later a cry for help to a wonderful friend which is hopefully going to deal with that....

weekends and nights are the most difficult for a lonely single woman like myself... even the amazing open air service at the Georgetown Fall Fair made it once again painfully clear that I am just that: a single woman...
Well, I still believe that His plans are to prosper me and not to harm me, to give me a hope and a future.. which is beyond what I could come up for myself... when is the question...  but I shall trust... what else can one do???

... Dedication Service Oct 16 for Hope for Life....

when I googled "Baby Shower Cup Cakes" I had the hardest time to chose... they were all soooooo cute and colourful...
yesterday I googled this because I was creating an Event on facebook and I wanted to use a cute picture like this...
after a great meeting with my pastor (  he is my shepherd and I am his sheep :D ) I finally was able to get the posters up on the church and now to invite people on facebook to attend the joyous event:
The Grand Opening and Dedication service we will have for Hope for Life Pregnancy Care Center on October 16.....

I have personally invited the Mayor and the newspaper to come, my Volunteers know about their role in this, testimonies are lined up and the EXCITEMENT is RISING!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I chose the little cupcakes as a picture for the event because we are asking everyone in the congregation to bring a "Baby Shower Gift "  my pastor, being a man and all .. ;) was concerned if it  was a good idea to let the gifts be brought to the altar as a part of the Dedication... he didn't want to do it if there would only be a handful of gifts.. well, I told him that, like every other woman, I am excited to get a baby gift... ( I thank my friends for having babies and allowing me to go shopping for one :)
I am counting on a beautiful display of our generosity that Sunday.. I can see all the colourful bags in the front, a display of our commitment to bless the women of Halton Hills  and their babies...

As a church and as a community it is a privilege for us to be in a place where we can bless others... every good and perfect gift comes from above, we have been given our abilities, our jobs, our finances from the One who provides and from whom all blessings flow...

my prayer is that He will be pleased with the outward display of putting our heart where our treasure is, by leaving a gift at the altar for someone who will be delighted to receive it one day and also make a statement that as Christians we DO care about what is happening outside our church walls... that the love we have for others in need is genuine...

I cannot wait to see all this unfold on October 16.... be there!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ( and bring a gift!!!)

... nothing earth shattering...

2 days of "home schooling" have gone by... I think it is working pretty well... yes it is boring, but stuff gets done... the goal, be done with this Semester Dec 14.... wow. we will see.
volunteer work set up for her... a whole day in the Kindergarten classroom at the Christian School each week.. wonderful.. making a difference, ( the theme this year...) so happy she can be back there a bit again this semester.. such a great place.
looks like life just continues to go on... no big lessons, no big lows or highs... each day a full array of choices, overwhelming sometimes.. annoying other times.. and then there are the heartbreaking moments.. but also the little joys..
and then, we are so blessed, we do not have to worry about where our next meal will come from, or if we can find shelter in the night.. we don't have to watch our step so as not to step on a land mine and lose our life,  our children are not forced into sex slavery and we have not been raped in front of them... our houses burnt down and everything taken from us.
I'd say, we have so many reasons to be content and thankful. after all  our light and momentary troubles are achieving for us an eternal glory that far outweighs them all. So we fix our eyes not on what is seen, but on what is unseen, since what is seen is temporary, but what is unseen is eternal.
there are people that do not believe that there is an eternity and they are flippantly dismissing my faith... there are those that like the fantasy that God is love and that everyone is going to be allowed to spent eternity with Him... well, we all will see, right?
I need to fix my eyes on Jesus, because I know that this is the truth... all who believe in Him and that He paid for our sins will have life everlasting... that's what I am going for... :)

...the BLAMING GAME....

when we are blaming others, we are saying that the others are responsible for our happiness  / well being / joy....

after Eve had been deceived by the serpent  and her and Adam were now hiding from God, having already lost what made the Garden of Eden "Paradise" : intimate fellowship with God, no fear...  when found by God started what is our downfall still today.... the BLAMING GAME.....

The man said, “The woman you put here with me—she gave me some fruit from the tree, and I ate it.”

The woman said, “The serpent deceived me, and I ate.”

funnily enough, the punishment for disobeying God's only NO was still given to all 3 of them... the serpent, the woman and the man.....
The Holy and Righteous God of the Universe was not influenced or even agreed with or took into consideration what Adam and Eve said in their defence, pointing the finger at someone else....

there is quite the lesson for us in this.... we all will be judged according to our own behaviour... no matter the : He made me do it... she started it... if he hadn't been this way... if those people just didn't make so many mistakes I wouldn't have gossiped about it... He, God Almighty, who knows EVERYTHING anyways.... judges each one for what they have decided to do.... we are given a choice, each time anything happens to us or around us... to do what is right or to just react out of our human nature...
and sin... we will be held accountable and there are going to be consequences for our own sin, there will be no: "oh he started it, so , sure... you had no choice..."
this is just not how God functions, He is too just and too holy to do that....

another aspect of the blaming game actually puts God in a box and makes Him real small.... I am only in this situation because of someone else's actions... you think????? how does God's sovereignty play into this then???
He is the ONE in control and He could have prevented what happened from happening.... easily... so if He didn't... He has a purpose... He is teaching us something... and, because He loves us like no other, it is for our best...

a marriage, a family, the workplace, the church, our government.... everywhere things will happen we do not like, disagree with, that hurt us, make us angry.... but we have been given a choice... what are we going to do with it... are we going to choose to walk through it in obedience and allow God to refine us through it or are we going to play the blaming game and engage in disobedience in the process ( and that would be unforgiveness, revenge, gossip) which will lead us astray, away from God...
it's a choice and we need to make it over and over again.....

I am the vine; you are the branches. If a man remains in me and I in him, he will bear much fruit; apart from me you can do nothing. If anyone does not remain in me, he is like a branch that is thrown away and withers; such branches are picked up, thrown into the fire and burned. ( John 15: 4-6)

Let's, by His grace, remain in Him and obey... no more finger pointing!!!!!

...a reminder of His faithfulness

have been busy getting stuff done for Hope for Life, very exciting ...

at the office early, taking some time with my Saviour.. my study bible has been my companion for the last 17 years, underlined everywhere, notes in the margins.. in it's carrying bag it contains all that is important in my life,  pages with meaningful scriptures written out, my testimony written down and letters and notes given to me with encouraging scriptures and such..

lately, over the last 3 years or so, this great bible has been falling apart... the hard cover is totally gone and it is really disintegrating now.. even the leather bag is not functioning properly anymore..

I do have new bibles, but I so far I have not been able to retire this one...
it seems there are so many meaningful entries and reminders of dear moments in there, all that God has taught me through these years has somehow been documented right in there...

at one point in time I started to copy all my notes and underlinings into a new bible... I gave up... I want to stick to my beloved old one... I might get it rebound.. someone said you can do that..
when I leaf through the pages of my old companion I am reminded how God met me in His Word, I am reminded of His faithfulness..

-like when the LORD told Joshua to have a representative of the 12 tribes to each get 12 stones from where the Israelites crossed the river Jordan with the Ark of the Covenant and take them as a reminder so that they could tell their children about how God had cut off the flow of the Jordan so that the Ark and the people of Israel could cross over the river of Jordan-

my bible is a reminder of the many times He, through His Word provided me with the needed encouragement, conviction and comfort... in the margins I recorded what it meant to me and I am blessed  when I read it again... I will stick to it, I will be loyal and not discard it, it might be old and tattered, but I love it... maybe one day it will be a reminder to my children and their children of who I was and what I stood for... a close and intimate relationship with my Jesus and His Word and a commitment to stick to it and all it stands for...

... I was there, you know.....

thankfully God is sovereign, and thankfully I do not question that at all... it is what I believe to be true...
if that wasn't the case I would have to explore the following:
most of us would agree that the best thing about a broken marriage is that there is a child now that otherwise wouldn't have been there...
then again, here comes my experience, without ever so much questioning the truth of this statement...if there wasn't a child, breaking up would be so much easier...
I have been exposed to more "visible signs" that I and my time with my Ex husband, not an insignificant amount of time either, 17 1/2 years, has been ERASED completely,  than I care for... I have been REPLACED and I might as well have dropped right off the face of the earth because: there is no more evidence around... oh, right, my kids, well, they somehow exist but tada.... they must have come out of thin air... wow...
it hurts, I have to admit, it does...
today, even though I know that God is sovereign, I also know that He loves me and my kids, I know that I am not insignificant and that the last 20 years of my life have had some kind of impact... I am kind of sick of all of this..
so. no uplifting conclusion, just me, I do exist, maybe not in the "history books" of my Ex's family... I have been replaced, down to the smallest detail.... I AM the mother of my children and I am the one who has and still is bringing them up by God's grace, I WAS the wife at my husband's side who supported and strengthened him in times when the going was tough, I was there when decisions were made, problems were dealt with and difficult times were lived through..I was there in the fun and the good times ... was I?
it sucks... it does... and it has nothing to do with new happiness that can be found now or anything like that...
it is just not nice and I am not wishing that on anyone, still, even there I do not even have a say and have to see it happen to someone very dear..
I know that God is in control, and that is a good thing, I know that He is ultimately not going to let anyone off the hook, even when it might look like that right now...
so sorry.... I can't wait for the dust of the last few weeks to settle..... I do really just want to be lifted out of this... please????
... and, yes, I know that this is nothing compared to other most horrific stuff going on everywhere... so forgive me for complaining... I will get over this too...
oh, and before I forget, I am tremendously blessed to have my daughters...and all of my friends... I am  blessed to have a longing for heaven and know that I am going to be there one day and that there all the brokenness will be restored.. I am blessed to have a friend like Jesus... after all, He even died for me... my name is engraved in the palm of my Father's hand... He will never forget or erase me.. replace me or anything like that...
dang, He just won't let me wallow... He always comes through, even on a day like today....
okay... thank you Lord... you are the bestest!!!!!!!!!

...it's all foolishness....

sick still, even had to cancel a nice getaway with a few very close friends... :(
I have been sick quite a bit lately... some interaction today with someone who cares about me and is very dear to me but so obviously does not share my faith made it clear to me again that ( no surprises here) what the Bible says is SO TRUE!!!!!

"This is what we speak, not in words taught us by human wisdom but in words taught by the Spirit, explaining spiritual realities with Spirit-taught words.  The person without the Spirit does not accept the things that come from the Spirit of God but considers them foolishness, and cannot understand them because they are discerned only through the Spirit." (1 Corinthians 2:13+14)

I do believe that mind, soul and body are all inter-connected and one.. makes a lot of sense to me, I think that especially as someone who understands that there is the seen and the unseen world, and they both exist at all times, it makes sense that emotional stress could be weakening one's immune system and vice versa... no question about that...
so that's what made this well meaning person to tell me again that I was not dealing with things and that me saying I was well / fine / good... was a mistake and that those things here on earth are not something God deals with, because they are down here and too small anyways... and that's why I am sick, again...

now this is someone that has heard me share about my personal relationship and that my Jesus is someone that is right here with me and is intricately involved with all the details of my life, small or big.. and still, it makes no sense to him,  it's foolishness...

he also cannot understand that I am dealing with things in the only way I think is right, by giving it to God, by forgiving and letting go, by following Him as good as I can, with His help .... this includes accepting that living life here on earth includes heartache, hurt, sadness, pain and illness...
accepting that going through these times is okay and that I do not have to find some solution to fix the problem on my own by analyzing it away but that I instead just surrender all my cares to Him and trust that He will take care of me, be either solving what can be solved, show me how to solve things or by patiently enduring the sorrow and heartache...

I guess without the spirit life is only about the here and now and therefore finding solutions and fixes for anything that stands in the way of total enjoyment is so much more important...
I know that my citizenship is in heaven and that my real destination is there... whatever God allows me to suffer is only going to make me more like Him, will allow me to be a better ambassador for Him....

I think today's conversation was just to remind me again that without God "letting ears grow on one's heart" opening someone's eyes by saving them, all that He has taught me, the wisdom He has given me is nothing but FOOLISHNESS to them.... sad  but true...

it is all Him, never anything I could say.... He is the One that has to take the blinders away.... and there is nothing I can do for things being interpreted in the wrong way, talked about behind my back...
they just don't know any better... praying that they will one day, not for my but for their sake...

... it is ok to not be okay...

one of my fav pastors, a guy named Pete Wilson, a pastor in Nashville, challenged his facebook friends today by saying " Let's be real today... it is ok to not be ok" .... ha....
kind of sad that a pastor would have to say that to his friends, mainly you would think Christians, maybe even from his church... one lady commented that in her experience the church was not a safe place to not be okay...

as someone who likes history, my mind always tries to figure out what happened, in regards to the church, Jesus by His dealings with sinners made it pretty clear that He was very understanding and full of mercy and grace.. His death was the ultimate proof that this is what He was all about... grace, open arms for us, the sinners, and that we are justified through what He did, we are people stuck in this world, not ok, yet loved, accepted  by Him...so what happened?

I think people happened... people, well meaning people for sure, needed to find some way to control what was going on... people like you and me, believers, struggling to trust and just take what His word says at face value and stick to it... instead people came up, and still do today, with rules and regulations and created an environment where it was again (like in Jesus' times, the Pharisees) not ok to be not ok....

man made rules, made up to control what people were doing.... not trusting God, really putting Him in a box... making Him very small....
because, being not ok is ok, not because it is okay to sin,  but because He loves us and is fully aware how broken we are, because of what He did we are forgiven, His spirit in us will never give up on transforming us and making us more and more like Him....

trusting Him for what He has promised and relying on His strength to be transformed... not out of our own strength... if we do that, we do not have to feel that we need to control whats happening around us, we will not judge others and we will be free from condemnation, even if others (even in the church) are judging us...

there is power in transparency, being authentic and admitting not to be ok allows others to see how God is working in our lives... so please, of all places, be ok to not be ok in your church...... admitting things are not okay is difficult, pride has to be put aside... good lesson I think... fear of condemnation...if we know who we are in Christ  that shouldn't bother us... rather we can enjoy the acceptance of the genuine body of Christ... what blessing and freedom in being real... so let's be real, not just today, but always!

... soul-parching thirst.....

got sick... so maybe this is why I was caught up in those sad and dark moments of the last few days... hormone levels might have something to do with it too... but, rather than trying to understand on a human level, God gave me something today....


As the deer pants for streams of water,
so my soul pants for you, O God.
My soul thirsts for God, for the living God. ( Psalm 42:1+2)
 

thinking back to the days when I was a child, lying in bed at night I would wonder and question what life was all about... I read my huge big Children's Bible a few times and for many years I wondered what else there was for me.... searching for God, longing for something far deeper than my religious education had taught me....

in light of those scriptures my late night ponderings, feelings of loneliness and longings so deep make sense, no wonder no human ever has been able to fulfill them....
this was delivered to my mailbox this morning,  a daily devotional... this is what my God communicated to me to clarify what I have been feeling again these last couple of nights:

most of the time life is so loud and noisy it drowns out what is going on in our souls...
"Yet sometimes, the deep longing throbs are loud enough to wake us up and remind us of our soul-parching thirst for the fountain of divine love.
In these moments of absolute weakness, of absolute dependence, we can do nothing but simply ache for the presence of God. This longing is a sign that Love has already reached out to us and is drawing us ever closer, ever upward into His heart. And He comes and satisfies our thirst with a spring of love that knows no bounds. "

all my "sad" moments of longing, basically all my life, rather than explaining them in human terms and searching to "blame" someone ( bad me, I shouldn't do that... I know my God is sovereign..... ) this is what it is and has always been... a longing for the divine Love of my Father, because in His limitless love He had already allowed me to get a glimpse of it when I was very young.... so my longing for Him did not let me rest until it was time for Him to reveal Himself to me over 17 years ago.... the longing continues, will never be totally fulfilled until the day I will meet Him face to face.... so...again.... I am choosing to let anyone off the hook whoever was not able to fulfill my deepest longings... in reality my soul was yearning for the Love of God.... as He continues to draw me upward into His heart I will feel that utter aloneness here on earth, after all, my citizenship is in Heaven....

.....fellowship with Christ... and still lonely?

Alone? like an abandoned used toy?
lonely and sad.... abandoned and rejected, not just once, not only that last time...
loneliness, not just the absence of another person but rather not connected in a meaningful way with a significant other... I think anyways...
loneliness in a relationship I used to say was so much worse... that was when I was still in one,  and, you guessed it, felt very alone and lonely...
in the meantime, I am really alone, have been for some time...
my fellow abandoned wives agree with me that night time is the worst...


a good friend said today that it was a wise choice to put up the scripture, especially in my bedroom.... she is right... it seems I am assaulted the most when in here, all by myself, everyone has gone to bed, and the loneliness descends like a cloud.....
for the last 20 months I have been very good about sticking to what I know builds me up... listened only to Christian music for example... lately, realizing that I was much better I have been listening to some of the "normal secular love songs" I like... I have always had a melancholy streak and so many of those are very sad....

in my bedroom, with my music going tonite the cloud definitely was descending on me again... it didn't help that I heard some story from my mother today, which made me think of my father and the cruelty he still dishes out whenever he feels like it.... and, the fact that this has not changed and still continues to hurt my mother and sometimes me as well ... the dark mood was setting in..
yearning for love, compassion and understanding, someone to share the good and the bad, the joys and the sorrows, someone to connect in a deep meaningful way.... will it be what He has for me, or maybe not?

but then I caught a glimpse of the scripture on the wall of my bedroom.... Love is patient and kind and it definitely never fails... the AGAPE love that my Father in Heaven has for me.... and the cloud had to retreat.... His truth goes out and pierces our hearts, it is the sword, that cuts through the fog of lies and assaults... it speaks the truth to our innermost being, to our soul.....
I am so glad He gave it to us.. He, who was God, who was with God in the beginning, who is the WORD, that Word that never goes out in vain, that always accomplishes the will of the Father... He, Jesus, His truth set me free, again, tonite... I am no abandoned used up toy... I am the cherished daughter of the King of kings... He sings over me and quiets me with His love.... I am choosing to focus on that truth tonite....

.... the precious feet of an unborn child...

precious feet.... these little feet, I have a pin, are really only a few mm long, are the exact size of the feet of a 10 week old fetus, or as Dr.Russel Sacco calls them, unborn infant children...
today these little pins are worn by people to raise awareness of what abortion really is... that this "blob of tissue" is indeed a real little person.

at my office working away to get prepared for our, even though delayed, yet still soon Grand Opening in the next few weeks... today we are ordering all the curriculum, the DVDs, books, pamphlets and also some Precious Feet pins for our volunteers..

I am again so very thankful for this opportunity to be at work for the Lord and His cause... so thankful that He orchestrated it that way, that He is going to use us to bring His hope and His healing to women and men faced with an unplanned pregnancy.

today we were blown away once again how He provides and takes care of every little detail... down to the delays and unforeseen "problems" that all of a sudden do make so much sense... oh, to see Him at work... such a privilege...

I am a woman , and I like babies and little things,... these little feet just evoke motherly feelings in me and I started looking into the history of this Pro Life symbol...

Please take a moment to watch this, it is actually very interesting and amazing....
I am honored to be allowed to work together with my wonderful team of volunteers when the day comes that Hope for Life Pregnancy Care Center will be ready to open it's doors... our prayer is for the women, old and young, that will come through our doors, may the feel the  hope, love, compassion and mercy the Lord Jesus has for them.
To Him alone be the glory #SoliDeoGloria

.... not perfect.... but still loved!!!

... 9 months after moving into our new little house, I am proud to announce that I have put up my stencil scriptures today.....
this is an occurrence that gives you a clear picture of who I am in many ways....
when I moved in I had my house decorated and everything packed away in about 3 days... I never stop until I am done... so... after all that was done I did try to put the stencil stuff on the walls as well.... my first try was a disaster and now I got really scared I was going to rip it apart and destroy it all ( fear of failure).... so, I asked some people for advice / help.... and then when no one really came through I just forgot about it ( having a hard time to ask for help and make it happen).... in the meantime I had thought about it many times but rather than asking someone again and maybe really get someone to help me I had been contemplating if I really wanted to put them all up, since I wasn't going to stay here forever and they were expensive (finding excuses for not having to ask for help :S )....
anyways, motivated by my daughter's enthusiasm about decorating and making her new apartment her own I got all my courage up today and..... all my stencils are finally on the wall....

but the story goes on..... for my bedroom I had gotten the 1 Corinthians 13: 4-7 passage... since this is how, if there is another love in my life I am committed to love... I was, by God's grace able to love my husband like this even after I had found out that he had betrayed me and  lied to me for years....
so...... I started putting it up and.... got all caught up in the scripture that I love so much, talking to my best friend, Jesus, while doing it and singing the little song my kids learned about 12 years ago at VBS... Love is patient, Love is kind... it does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud it is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, keeps no record of wrongs, love does not delight in evil, but rejoices with the truth.... it always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres...
I was so in my own zone that.... stepping away from it I realized how crooked it looked...... oh my... no way to get it off the wall again, so now.... another tid bit about me, I like things just perfect... ha, who wouldn't....  but from now on I will just have to look at this every day many times and will be reminded, first of all that I did not do a perfect job....( and that is just not acceptable, or at least that's what I was taught when growing up ).... secondly though I will be reminded of this love, to love everyone this way.... and the loving kindness of my Father, who so gently convicted me 2 years ago of how I had not loved my husband this way.... His forgiveness and Him answering my prayers to change my heart... so.... I just love this passage.... I love that, even though very crooked, it's finally on my wall.... I love that for Him I do not have to be perfect.... so thankful!!!!!

... infinite, unconditional and self-motivated.....

   Have compassion on your servants. 

 Satisfy us in the morning with your unfailing love, 

   that we may sing for joy and be glad all our days. 

 Make us glad for as many days as you have afflicted us, 

   for as many years as we have seen trouble. 

 May your deeds be shown to your servants, 

   your splendor to their children.

  May the favor of the Lord our God rest on us; 

   establish the work of our hands for us— 

   yes, establish the work of our hands.

Psalm 90:13-17

His love is self-motivated, unconditional, infinite, and absolute; while human love is object motivated, conditional, finite, and relative.

He has revealed Himself to us in His Word, but still it is hard for us to comprehend His character... we were made in the image of God but sin entered the world and gone was the selflessness and in came the selfishness....

He loves me with this love I cannot comprehend, with this love my soul longs for, with this love I still hope to find one day lived out by a "human"..... 

I know that I need to go to Him in the morning and let my cup be filled by His love.... from there it is a win- win situation... 

so what if no human male figure in my life has been able to love me like that.... God does and He does it perfectly.... 

okay, I guess I am / have been surrounded by talk about the Wedding, pictures, my daughter who is kind of researching "Weddings" maybe as a business, couples wherever you look.... so yes, it is a bit lonely at times... but...... His love and His grace are sufficient... and I am held.... in  His loving hands... it is the truth even though I cannot see it, or feel it in human terms it is still there.... I love Him and I trust Him...

He is faithful.... hmmmmm... off to church, love it....